Spanking For Pleasure-How To Put It Into Words...

Oops! I did...
Silly me...
Well maybe not poetry, but,
there was a lot
of rhythm involved, lol...

The voice does do a lot for me,
but it depends on the tone...
Serious & aggy...
Well. That will just put me off...

For no other reason then I love being spanked
for sexual, sensual, erotic 'Pleasure'

Or a lot,
depending on the warm up...

"Only Dead Fish Go With The Flow!"-

More from my private blog...AGAIN! Believe me there is a lot in my private blog, which is best left private, lol...

Ohhhh! Dear. In one blog post I have insulted 50% of the scene population, lol. You know what. I don't care. Because I can't stand that male chauvinist, arrogant, pompous attitude that women need to be taken down a peg or two. Kept in hand. Made accountable for THEIR! behavior...

This attitude usually comes from less then perfect guys. They are usually overweight, bushy eyebrows. Less then perfect. Why should a woman allow them to dictate how they should live their life & punish them accordingly...

Yet. I go on to insult more people, lol...

Not that I'm insulting these blokes looks. I'm just saying. They are not perfect. Nobody's perfect...

Theres more of my dribble...

Especially a near stranger,
who is only interested
in one thing...
A bottom to spank...

Yes I get the pleasure from spanking a lady, part, but not the arrogant NEED! to punish, train, control. They are traits of a control freak. Ohh! Yeess! I dared to go there...

Yes. I get that some women like being controlled. If they get pleasure from it & they are capable of functioning on an emotional level without desperately needing attention, or approval, or to be punished. Fine go for it. Each to their own...

It's like me. When I used to play every other week, with my Dom.  That was for mutual 'adult' pleasure. Spanking to me is sexual, sensual, erotic...{As I keep saying}  You never know. One day I might actually meet 'another' guy who wants to spank me for the pleasure of spanking. Not to train me...

Exactly!
That just reminded me
of being told to
'Go with the flow'
when reacting to
behavior which went
against my sense
of what is right
& what is wrong...
Never go with the flow...
Always go with
your own instincts
If it feels wrong,
it probably is wrong,
even if it is only
wrong in your mind
& everyone else
sees it differently...

Actually the people I play with now fit into that category. See. I'm not just a man hating feminist, lol...

Go to bed at boring 'O' clock. Drink less wine {So its, like. What is the point?} Do this. Do that. Do it MY! way. Or I will PUNISH! you. Umph! Not good...

I suffer from insomnia. So I go to bed between 3-5am. Not because I want to stay up to the early hours. No. Because I just can't sleep. I can feel really tired. Go to bed 'Wide awake!'. Then I toss & turn to the early hours anyway. So I might as well accept that I am not going to sleep until 3am-5am. Watch tele. Read, etc. It is not worth getting all stressed out about...

After all. I have been a so called insomniac all my life. Even as a baby I did not sleep until gone 2am. When I was born. They put me in the sluice room among the bed pans. So I would not disturb the other babies. There was one midwife who would cuddle me all night...

Nuff said...

A bit more from my private blog...

PE. Tried to manipulate me all the time. To keep me sub like. I did not want to do something. I was rebelling. I had attitude. Look what happened to my mind. I ended up depressed

He would wind me up. Play me off other people, until I reacted, then he would punish me. That is not good. If I learned one thing from way back in my naive, gullible newbie days. Steer clear of control freaks & emotional abusers. I just don't need the crap in my life, thank you very much. Note I said 'My life'...

Hey You-

"At This Point Its Safe To Say That You Can Go Screw Yourself"

I wrote this blog post originally in my private blog, but, then I thought. What the heck. I'm going to post my opinionated judgy point of view in my spanking blog. After all. I am never likely to play with these people. Anyone I am likely to play with will think like me, or could not care less how I feel about these people...

{Grey is from my private blog, which is no longer private}

Hmmm!

HELP WITH LIFE'S LITTLE PROBLEMS....

So I currently have a couple of sub's undergoing intensive weight loss/fitness programmes, and in one case severe financial realignment. This got me wondering if there were any others within reasonable distance that might benefit from a spanking approach to solving problems/issues within their lives at this time? Weight loss, stopping smoking, budgeting, drink problems - anything that the application of commonsense backed up by a good right arm might help with.
Safe, sane, consensual and effective!
If you think this might help you, or someone you know, then get in touch!
Singles, couples, whatever.

That sort of attitude makes me "Grrr!!!"...Why not just spank someone for mutual pleasure. Why the punishment? Why. If it was considered a punishment, would she be in a spanking site, FFS!

Role play is different. Because role play is just that 'play'...

Ohh! Yeah! I'm going to let some 'complete stranger' have the power to dictate to me how I behave in MY! life. I drink red wine. Therefore some control freak has a right to beat me? I am over weight & fail on MY! diet, so some strange bloke with a punishment fetish gets to hurt me? I don't think so, matey...

Any woman who agrees to that is in need of a psychiatrist. That personal says it all about that bloke. So not just one sub. No a couple of subs & his looking for lots more. So just a cold beating then? As opposed to a close friendship with 'mutual' adult pleasure...Steer clear of '****'. His a bottom collector, who's into punishment, not adult pleasure. He is basically an abusive A hole...

Intensive? WTF! Financial realignment? I'm sorry, but that bloke is an abusive control freak. Not a Dom into spanking for pleasure. That is not good. That is emotionally destructive. To punish someone you have to hurt them enough not to enjoy it. So. You do well on your diet, no spanking?

Ohhh! Heres another one for down South. Abusive A hole above is in Scotland/Perth. This geezer is down South. Talk about copy in the hope that he can get some of what his getting. Can't get a woman. Try being an arrogant control freak & abusing her...

DISCIPLINE/MENTORING FOR FEMALES IN KENT/SOUTH EAST

Lose weight or achieve any targets/ambitions ! I'm looking for females that are looking or need mentoring to enable them to reach targets or realise ambitions. I have had experience in mentoring and disciplining females, so you're in safe hands. Mentoring with discipline can help motivation and enhance personal achievement it can also help to alleviate stress or simply help you keep you on track. I would also be more than happy for one off sessions for any reason or even just to help you to fulfil a lifetime fantasy. Also Regular maintenance spanking. discipline spankings can be very therapeutic and could help promote emotional and mental well being, the only down side your left with a sore bottom Feel free to message no obligation. All limits and dignity assured k xx

Hmmm! Sooo! Up himself...

We have had the ads looking for cleaning staff. Now the arrogant, pompous A holes looking for weak willed women to punish. You're not perfect matey. You don't have a right to boss some woman around & punish her. That is 'Abuse!'...Yet. You still get silly bitches who allow these blokes to abuse them emotionally & psychically. See a psychiatrist you silly cow!

This is why I am sooo fussy. Because so many blokes in the scene have got that attitude. That they have got a right to dictate to a woman how HE! thinks she should behave...

I find all that insincere 'naughty girl' crap, fucking aggravating as hell. NO! Twat! I am a grown woman who happens to get sexual, sensual, erotic 'PLEASURE!' from being spanked. It is sexual. It should be mutual adult fun. Not some control freak dick head being an abusive A hole 'Consensual abuse'...

I am less polite & swear more in my private blog, lol...

Then. Theres more...

ARE YOU SOUTH LONDON FEM IN NEED OF MAINTENANCE ?

South London girls looking for maintenance / punishment classical spanking ?

I appreciate that you may need discretion - this and any limits you have will be respected..

Maintenance? WTF! does he think we are, fucking machinery? Cars? This is why I no longer play. Because you have so many dick heads with a arrogant, pompous attitude towards women...

Of course I only play with Dom's who spank for pleasure. Basically. If some bloke. Who was a near stranger, came to my home to punish me for w/e. I would end up feeling like crap. Punishing someone for not being able to stick to a diet, when dieting is near impossible, is reinforcing how bad she feels in the first place. Punishment from a amature 'bossy boots' is more likely to make you gain more weight, then stick rigidly to your diet for fear of being 'Punished!' I would probably eat more...

What a choice. Stick to your diet & exercise regime 'No spanking'. Fail. Get a spanking. Hmmm! Now. What woman, who is into spanking would go for the 'Be good' NO! spanking. 'Stuff your face silly & slob around on the couch' Get a much loved spanking...

Nuff said for now...

Harsh Punishment-

Lol!
A cruel & unnatural punishment...

Twisted Heart Spanking Loop-

Twisted heart spanking loop...
by floggermeister...

This twisted heart wossy looks painful, but intriguing. I imagine you would get the stroke from the middle part then a whipping type stroke from each side...

Mind you. Judging by my twisted loop cane, it will probably be agonising...

"OMFG! I have turned into one of those grumpy old women..."

I have not written in my spanking blog for a while {I know, who cares, lol} Spanking has not been on my mind...

Though I am on a low carb diet to help improve my health, so I can get more pleasure from spanking again. I'm not some nubile young thing anymore...

Sooo! Old geezers looking for young nubiles. Nothing to see here. Move along {HeeHee}

Ohh! Yeah! I got a...Ummm! invite to a so called reunion spanking party {Its hush hush, can't give out details} It should be fun. If it is like the good old days that is...

Ohh! Yeah! It's our munch meet next Tuesday evening. I am looking forward to spending time with people I get on with. Yep! There are a few...

I must be getting old. Because I inwardly groan when someone says about giving me a hard spanking. As I say. I am aiming for comfort. Gone are the days I can take a hard thrashing. Gone are the days I can stay bent over for ages. I need cushions. Air conditioning. Extra coffee breaks to keep up my strength. Toned down spanking. I never thought I would ever say that...

Basically. I need one of those bespoke spankings I've seen in personals. Mind you 'Bespoke' Is that a new fangled way of saying 'I will listen to your needs'. Gawd! I must be getting old, I'm using words like 'Fangled' & taking the pee out of the use of the word 'bespoke' in the same sentence as 'spanking'

OMFG! I have turned into one of those grumpy old women...

Nah! Not really. I am still young at heart. I have just reached the time in my life when I can't be arsed with all the unnecessary crap. My friend 'T' has offered to give us a lift to the 'top secret location' party...Which is great. We get on well. Have great play sessions, but...I don't think I am up for the few hour long thrashed all over stincts anymore...Ummm!

I remember being totally out of it, unaware of the time. I thought it had been about 45 minutes, but, no, more like over 2 hours 'Eeeek!'. Now. He'll be lucky if I last 15 minutes. Maybe the low carb eating to improve my health, will also improve my stamina when it comes to spanking. We'll see...