xxxx
im xxxx, new here. Like your profile and pics. You seem to be straight forward and i like that. maybe we can chat a bit and see where it goes. Dont know what im looking for or wanting, really, but do know i like your page and wanting to know you more, sooo.... HELLO!
Okay! Not such a bad message...im xxxx, new here. Like your profile and pics. You seem to be straight forward and i like that. maybe we can chat a bit and see where it goes. Dont know what im looking for or wanting, really, but do know i like your page and wanting to know you more, sooo.... HELLO!
D_B
Welcome to the wild world of fetlife. It does help to have an idea of what you are looking for around here!
The polite reply to his message, every bloke expects, even when his being a douche, lol...Welcome to the wild world of fetlife. It does help to have an idea of what you are looking for around here!
xxxx
im looking for a playmate
Ummm! To play chess? Charades?...im looking for a playmate
D_B
Ahh, I do non sexual playmates on occasion if we are well suited. Not into casual sex play.
Which is fair enough...Ahh, I do non sexual playmates on occasion if we are well suited. Not into casual sex play.
xxxx
i dont think sex as casual. how does that work?
Ummm! Does he want her to work everything out for him, lol...i dont think sex as casual. how does that work?
D_B
Playmates to me is a very casual thing, no real relationship and only light friendship.
Thats it 'casual'. Which is something I am not interested in...I get the feeling most women, not just D_B is looking for something 'less casual'. You might as well call it being a pro sub/so called booty call without the fee...Playmates to me is a very casual thing, no real relationship and only light friendship.
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| "Meee" ...but I'm not willing to settle for just anyone Not willing to be someones casual on occasion acquaintance... 'nooo fees exchanged mentality'... |
I know. From experience. Most blokes want a casual, no strings attached, {unless tying you up} 'casual' on occasion relationship. Even my Ex Dom wanted that, moths after we had called it a day. Ohh! Okay! So you expect the same 'close connection' which leads to a long, intense, intimate play, but nooo commitment. I don't want a contract, but I do want friendship, regular contact, regular play...Yep! Great for you. Not so great for me. Because unlike most men. I'm not looking to play with as many blokes as I can fit into my so called busy schedule...
Back to D_B's messages from a typical...££$$$£"£$%...
xxxx
that sounds cool, any fondling?
Fondling? Ohhh! You mean touching her up. Did she not mention Non sexual'. Frustrating I know. The bloke wants sex. The woman doesn't. The woman is being honest about it & I suppose so is he, but he starts the messages with 'not knowing what he was looking for'. I think he meant 'I don't know what I can get away with'...that sounds cool, any fondling?
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| Not just because I'm a available bottom to use & abuse... I only play with people I like I'm sure that works both ways, but to like someone enough to do something so intimate you need to be more then just casual acquaintances, nooo strings attached, no fees exchanged... |
D_B
Nope.
Short & sweet. To the point...Nope.
xxxx
thats not playing, thats teasing
Teasing? Isn't so called 'teasing' sexual, then?thats not playing, thats teasing
D_B
I'm talking paddles, floggers, whips, wax play ect. Non sexual BDSM play is the only thing I would do on a "playmates" only basis.
See. Plenty there to be getting on with...If you were indeed into actual spanking & not just looking for wank fodder or free sex...A typical time waster. Look for women into being fondled, if fondling is your thing. Shes looking for what she wants...Which is her prerogative. I'm sure its on her profile, if you bother to look...I'm talking paddles, floggers, whips, wax play ect. Non sexual BDSM play is the only thing I would do on a "playmates" only basis.
xxxx
so how do i get off?
PMSL!...Did he really just say that...so how do i get off?
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| I'll go for all 5, well 4.5. Because I'm not into role play, but if my Dom is in his own role, thats fine by me, apparently my reactions are real enough to carry on a one sided role play, lol... Though I am always put off by personals & profiles which appear to be mainly into role play... "Each to their own" |
D_B
lol
I don't know you, couldn't care less about how you get off.
Bye
{HeeHee} Good come back...lol
I don't know you, couldn't care less about how you get off.
Bye
xxxx
bye
Well there's lots of free porn sites on the net...You might want to start there...bye
The thing is, because there are so many wankers out there, who see a submissive woman as 'Easy' We tend to end up being wary. There are also controlling, abusive blokes out there, who don't seem to even like women...
I know my perfect, ideal Dom/spanker does not exist, no ones perfect, but I have set myself some personal ground rules. I don't want to play with another woman's Dom, when there is a chance she is not happy with sharing her Dom...
Not that I intend to try & get him to be my Dom. I have got more dignity & self respect then to come onto another subs, Dom. Hmmm! Pity not all women act the same way. This is why it is so difficult to get a decent Dom. All the decent Dom are either taken, or there is a queue of sour faced bitches gushing all over him. I prefer to leave them to get on with it, lol...
Mind you. What I am looking for is not the same as what most subs are looking for. Unfortunately not many Dom's are looking for what I am looking for either. They want casual, occasional, play with lots of friends/fem subs. Or they switch, so they are looking for a fem switch....
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