A Few Of My Kinks- "I would want to build a strong, addictive and loyal bond. "

Its always nice to come across a fellow fem sub who thinks like me. Mind you, shes 32. 'New' 'Fresh' She has probably been inundated with messages from blokes wanting to help her on her journey of discovery, lol...

This is Awesome! I'm new but love this site already x

What should someone new write about to start off with? So as not to appear clueless or a know it all. 

I'm not entirely sure what it is that I'm seeking but I know that it has a strong sexual motivation. I know that at certain times in the past I've been scared to admit what I'm thinking.
I would have to be really attracted to and feel comfortable with anyone I was experimenting with. As in I would give my trust only when I feel I can. When together It would be me and them against it all. I don't sleep around and I'm not here to do that. Nor am I here to marry , but at the least, I would want to build a strong, addictive and loyal bond.

I even logged in to give her kudos {Reputation wossy}

Anyway...I was just pinning some pic's onto my pinterest boards. I thought I would put a few pics from 'My kinks' board...

I love being spanked, caned, strapped,
thrashed with a belt...
Whilst bent over a pile of cushions...

The picture above reminds me of my coming back spanking, nearly two weeks ago. Laying over a pile of cushions. The fan on my face. My gentle {Not so} spanker, Spanking me with a belt. It was bliss. It would have been even more bliss, if I had not been sooo frigging hot...

My favorite. Being caned {By an experienced, skilled caner} & bloomers. Caned in bloomers...That picture reminds me of quite a few canings, whilst bent over my dining table. I used to end up floating off into subspace. I remember the sensation of the hard cool table surface & the support from the table, so I could just let go & totally relax...

I love that feeling. My knickers being taken down. The sensation of my bottom being bared just before a spanking..."Mmmm!"...It is difficult to explain just how tingly it makes me feel. I hate having to pull my own knickers down. What is that about...

I have had someone say to me...'Pull your own knickers down, I'm not going to do it'. His wife was sitting near by. Heres an idea. If you are not going to touch another woman because you are respecting your wife. DON'T! spank the other women. Just spank your wife. Being treated like I am 'The other woman' is basically irritating...

Your spanking my bare bottom, FFS! You can see every intimate 'sexual' part of me. Don't insult me with your mock respect for your gorgeous wife. Have some respect for me. A sub who is allowing you to spank me...Jeeze!

Mind you. Some years after. When he wanted to play with me one to one. He told me that I was one of the few subs who turned him on when he was spanking me...I get the feeling he got over the attitude that pulling another woman's knickers down is some how being unfaithful, or dissing his lovely wife. She is a lovely person actually. There are some down to earth nice women out there...

Maybe she missed the gossip, lol...Or maybe she heard the gossip, but chose to make up her own mind. Some women are able to think for themselves & don't act all binty to other women, because they are emotionally secure in themselves...

Ops! I went off into a bitch fest...

"Mmmm!" That brings back quite a few fond memories, too...Being caned, whilst bent over the arm of the settee. Not the grinning bint holding my hands...Hmmm!

{Sighs}

I miss my Ex Dom. I had many long, hard, intense, blissful, almost unbearable thrashings in that position...

As the fem sub {top of the page} said...

"  .......As in I would give my trust only when I feel I can. When together It would be me and them against it all. I don't sleep around and I'm not here to do that. Nor am I here to marry , but at the least, I would want to build a strong, addictive and loyal bond. "

Very well worded. She says in a few sentences, what I am taking a whole blog to try to get across, but...Will the men get that, or just see it as one of those so called new fangled 'bespoke' spankings, lol...