Spanking Meme-Part Four-

Actually...
The spanking parties I went to,
there were nooo nakedness, just bare bottoms...
Don't get excited men...

• How many people spank you?

Well!...It used to be in the dozens. Maybe more. When I went to spanking parties I would play about 8 or 9 times. I have played with many Doms over the 11 years I have been in the so called scene...

I played one to one every other week with my, then Dom. Then...Well.................................

• Have you ever gotten spanked with your butt in the air?

Ummm! Yeesss! Where else would my bottom be...Hmmm?

• Have you ever gotten spanked so hard your butt was purple?

Yeess! A few times, including my first ever spanking. I had black bruising all over my bottom, which took 10 days to heal...but I am not into being bruised so much that I take over a week to heal. It is not good for you in the long term...

• Do you think that spanking is a good punishment?

No! Don't think anyone should be punished in a  psychical or emotional way. I believe it is emotionally destructive in the long term...I am talking from experience. I was in a D/s relationship where he would wind me up & keep on winding me up, pushing & pushing, until I reacted. Then it was ALL MEEE! so of course in his demented mind I deserved to be punished..."Grrr!!!"...That is not a healthy relationship, if it was supposedly consensual or not...Of course I got out of that destructive D/s relationship & got myself over it...

Of course I chose not to gossip, but I could not control Mister gossiping wind up man, lol...

• Do you believe spanking has made your relationship better, or worse?

It made my life better. It was like a hobby. I suppose other hobbies come up, so being spanked was not so...Ummm!...What...There to keep me occupied? lol...

I loved being spanked. I played a lot. I got a lot of pleasure from it...but it was not the be all & end all of my life. I have got a good vanilla life. My subbie life was separate to my vanilla life. When my subbie life started to interfere with my vanilla life, that is when things had to change...

Pandera Blake...
Its nice to see a curvy spanking model,
instead of the usual quite skinny ones...
There are women with curves...

There was a time when I thought my life would be boring without spanking & parties in my life. I have just proved to myself that I am perfectly content being nilla me. Spanking is just a hobbie. A pleasurable 'sexual' hobby, but still a hobby not a 'Need!'...

• Is your butt red and sore afterwards?

Of course...Though photo's don't always show up just how red & sore it is...

Most of of spanking pic's are on my FL profile. I deleted them from my files. I'll have to look how I can save my own pic's. Surely I can. I downloaded them after all...