Doing The Research Before Writing My Fetlife Profile-You Can Learn A Lot Reading Other Peoples Profiles & Fetish Lists...

Soooo! I'm still doing the research to do my Fetlife profile {Gawd! Just get on & do it already, how difficult can it be...Sheesh!}...I am just reading some other fem subs profiles...

Apparently­ I can be ­a naughty ­little gir­l at times­, and some­times I’m ­far too cheeky for m­y own good­. Of cours­e, I don’t­ believe a­ word of i­t, I’m alw­ays very g­ood, full ­of sweetne­ss and lig­ht.

Lol! Well of course...

Mind you I am no where near a naughty little girl...Reading it just made me laugh...

10 things ­I’ve learn­t about Ds­

Thats a good way of writing about your sub self on your profile...

Hmmm! 10 things I have learned about being a sub...

#8...

1. The real thing is a lot better then fantasy. In this case fantasy is not best...
2. I love being spanked, over the knee, with near enough all implements. Except heavy slippers/gym shoes...
3. I love being caned. Though. Thin whippy canes are horrendous. Give me a thicker cane or dragon cane anytime...
4. I am most definitely not into role play. Especially school girl role play. I definitely prefer being spanked as myself...
5. I love being spanked for pleasure. I am not into 'serious' 'punishment'...
6. I detest standing in the corner, or facing a wall, or w/e. Especially with my hands on my head. I can't see the point of wasting my time doing that...Just spank me already, then we can sit down for coffee {red wine}  & a chat {I may need a cushion}
7. I prefer to play with Doms/spankers who treat me like a friend. Two friends sharing the same interest in spanking. I am not into being 'DOMMED!' by some bossy moody guy, who just wants to control me...
8. Apparently I am a sub with attitude. Though. As the quote goes..."My attitude is based on how you treat me."
9. I have learned that I am very submissive, but only in play. In real life I am a strong minded woman who knows her own mind. Though I am often judged on my being an introvert. Being introvert does not mean you are a meek, mild, timid little mouse...lol...
10. Did I say 'I love being spanked'...I love it enough to want to only play with Dom's who I feel a close connection with when we play...

10 things ­I like on ­the nilla ­side of li­fe:

Thats good. Because the vanilla side is often overlooked by certain Dom/spankers, who are only looking for so called hook ups {Aka casual play, no fees exchanged, no strings, no nothing, just my bottom. Nooo! Small talk...Hmmm! No small talk, we're never likely to meet face to face, let alone meet to play...

Anyway...Here goes...

#7

1. Gardening...I love my garden...
2. Getting creative, be it knitting, drawing, painting, mosaicing a pot for my garden, etc...My next project is to create a mural of a garden, in my hall, so I have flowers & plants all year. I've been looking up trompe l'oeil. I like all things art. Including spanking/erotic art...
3. Nature. I love all things nature. From beaches to riversides to woods. Especially woods. Anywhere peaceful where I am not surrounded by people...
4. My puter of course...Playing Sims 3...Facebook, Pinterest, etc...
5. Reading...My kindle...
6. All things pagan, witchy, paranormal, spiritual, visualisation, psychology, tarot etc...
7. Drinking red wine & nattering with my friends. I am the kind of person who has just a few friends, but they are true friends. I am not a 'make lots of acquaintances' type of person. Some might call me antisocial. As the quote says {Ohh yes I like quotes, lol} "I'm not anti social I'm selectively social"
8. I love my dogs, cat, fish, guinea pigs, etc...
9. I enjoy listening to music. Usually heart radio...
10. Food. I do like my food. You could not accuse me of being a fussy eater, lol...

Gotta go...