More From The Fetlife Group 'Return To Sender'-Writing My Fetlife Profile Is A Work In Progress-Gathering Tips...

I've been browsing through my favorite group in Fetlife 'Return to sender' I came across this gem...

You have double standards!

by -L

MESSAGE SUBJECT: A Wonder-filled, summertime greeting to you!



ImSoFullOfShit44:

Just wanted you to know you were noticed, and... appreciated. Hope 2015 is your best year ever... so far!

If you are as nice on the inside as you appear on the outside, I would love to learn more. If however, your outside is your best side, then I wish you every happiness, but do not waste your or my time! I do hope, and expect, that this is not the case with you.

I put that previous paragraph in to hopefully keep the "asshats" away. I would not have approached you, if I thought you to be one of those!

-L Thanks but you've not even read my profile so I can tell you care very little about what's on the inside.

(It asks at the bottom of my profile to put the message subject as 'mischief' so I know if it's been read)

ImSoFullOfShit44:

Yes... and you did not read mine. There is one thing I loathe, and that is a human with a double standard. Be well. You are dismissed, I do so wish you were halfway attractive on the inside. After all, it is all downhill now for your outsides. lol

You can't respond to this conversation because FUCKING-WANKHAT has deactivated their account, you've blocked them, or they've blocked you.

I didn't even get chance to tell him that I didn't read his profile because I had no interest in him. Hate it when they block me before I can knock them down a few pegs. Boo hoo.

Ummm!

"  If however, your outside is your best side, then I wish you every happiness, but do not waste your or my time! I do hope, and expect, that this is not the case with you."

Lol! Yep! These strange people do exist. Its as if he forgot that he sent her a message, not the other way round. How to fail. Mention that you hope the person you are sending the message to is not a 'time waster'. Without stopping to think that maybe it is rude to send such a message in the first place....

All he had to do was cut out the rude, defensive bit & read her profile. How difficult is it to read a profile, FFS! I always read a profile to the end, including their fetish list. The thing is. I'll get messages saying that we share the same fetishes, only to go & read their list & find maybe one spanking. Lots of arse play, anal, forced oral...Usually far from sharing the same interests...

Okay. So you might think you will only do what I like & won't expect anal, arse play, the rest, but that is your main fetish. One I have no intention of receiving. So we're not compatible. Now if you had mainly spanking. Lots & lots of spanking on your list, I can be pretty sure you are into spanking... Read the PROFILE!...Its not rocket science....

I get tips for my profile, as well...

(It asks at the bottom of my profile to put the message subject as 'mischief' so I know if it's been read)

That is actually a good idea...I am going to put a questionare, to test them as well, lol...Nooo! Not really, just teasing...The thing is. I don't want to catch people out. I just know what I am looking for in my Ideal Dom. So why waste both our time, by chatting to someone I know we're not compatible...

Even if we share the same interests & are both looking for the same thing. I can't be dealing with someone who sends me a 'defensive, get the dig in first before I can reject him' message. That actually tells me a lot about you. You will get on my nerves with your defensive attitude...