More From My Fetlife Group-Maybe This Is Why Women Are So Wary...

Ummm! Why am I in Fetlife again? Ohh! Yeah! To find my ideal Dom/spanker...I thought I would copy & paste another example of what types us women have to deal with in the so called scene...

You deserve it!

by HP

Got this charming fellow in my inbox this morning. These days, I'm really grumpy when it comes to people like this.

I know how she feels. It can be enough to put you off bothering to find a Dom/spanker, all together...It certainly makes me wary of doing my profile asking for what I am looking for...

Because some reprobate is bound to come along & cause  me to question 'Why am I looking, again???'...

It gets tediously boring in the the end...We know not all men are like that, but because of the morons, we become more wary, more careful of who we chat to...

Been there, done that, so many times...Of course there are the few decent Dom's out there. Probably more, but they give up on us, labeling us as time wasters. Nooo! In most cases our time has been wasted dealing with ill mannered bullying A holes...

Mind you. I know quite a few Dom's who don't struggle to find a fem sub, because they go to munch meets & parties, where they can show the ladies that they are not like the morons...

Mind you. Sometimes the morons turn up at the munch meets & parties...

Anyway. Here goes another Woman vs man deep debate...lol...

hey-mraprobably:4h

I like your tits

Lol! He's a charmer isn't he...Can you imagine a woman sending a man a message saying "Hey, I like your dick"...Okay! Maybe a few women do, what do I know...but...In general we don't send messages like that...

HP

I don't care.

Lol!

mraprobably:3h

Just trying to give you a compliment no need to be a cunt

Ummm! 'A cunt?'...Just because she responded in kind...Wow! How else was she supposed to respond? "Ohh Thank you" {Blush}......

Moron!

HP

Go read the first fucking line of my profile.

See. Call a woman a cunt, thats how she reacts, lol...

mraprobably:3h

Well I did read it. I didn't show up with a dick profile pic. But you have a problem taking a simple compliment. Like I said no need to be a cunt. I wasn't trying to fuck you just being nice. But apparently you have a problem with that. If you didn't want comments or compliments why post pics or even have a profile? Just another means to let your shitty personality out because I doubt it would be accepted in the real world. Have a good fucking day.

& his off...Obviously looking to provoke an argument in the first place...Twat!

Simple compliment? In real, everyday life, "Hey, I like your tits" Is sexual harassment. I'm sure if she had sent him a message saying "Hey, I like your dick" He would have swollen with pride, but never likely to happen...Sooo he needs to compliment his own dick...{Grins}

Can you imagine, a bloke walking up to a woman in a pub, or w/e & greeting her with 'Hey, I like your tits'...

{{{SLAP!}}}

Out comes the pepper spray...

So then if she reacts in a non friendly way to his creepy perv smutty behaviour, he would call her a cunt...Hmmm???

Real life still applies...Even if you are hidden behind your sticky screen...I suppose he got what he was looking for 'Attention' from the provoked argument, because he got in there pretty quick with the 'How to hurt a woman, insults'...

HP

I don't like receiving sexual messages. I tolerate -some- stuff like that if someone is leaving a comment on a picture that is specifically of my boobs (depending on how vulgar said comment is), but to just message me basically saying "nice tits" when I specifically ask people not to do that? That's sexual harassment. And good god, I could have been a lot meaner. I sincerely don't give a shit if some random guy on the internet likes my boobs. I don't have to fucking thank you for that. Do you think you're doing me a favor by telling me that or something? As a busty girl, I literally have guys commenting on my boobs all the time. It gets irritating. Stop acting like such an entitled prick.

"Wooo!" Well said...Love the 'entitled prick' part {HeeHee}...{Takes note}

mraprobably:1h

If you didn't like sexual messages you wouldnt post the pictures you do. You just do it because it gives you reason to act like a feminist bitch. I didn't see anywhere that you specifically said to not do that. You must lead a very miserable life. I can see why you have to bare your tits on the internet. Because no one would approach you based on your personality alone. If you didn't care, you wouldnt be here. Simple as that.

An example of the women haters we have to deal with on the net, especially on these sites...Hence
less women in the so called scene, meeting the decent, respectful, grown up men...

Probably, also why Munch meets & parties work. The douche. Would not be so bold as to walk up to a woman & say 'Hey,I like your tits' Then call her a 'c**t when she rejects his creepy perv, smutty advances...

Ohh. A feminist bitch too...Charming....

I know. I call certain women bitches too, but only the ones who have behaved like one towards me. If I had done something to deserve their rude ignorance, fair enough...but I never have...

HP

"DO NOT EXPECT A POSITIVE RESPONSE IF YOU COME CRASHING INTO MY INBOX, DICK FIRST"

Pmsl! I'll have to remember that one {Is keeping notes}{Nooo not really, I'm only joking}

and

"please don't message me telling me what you'd do to me. It's not gonna happen and I don't care. Also don't tell me if you've jerked it to my pics. I don't want to know. I'm not going to talk dirty to you, either. And I prefer to talk about vanilla things for a while before diving into kink."

How the fuck could you think I want sexual messages when I have that written on my profile? I could post a close up of a dildo up my ass and still not deserve to be harassed. You're obviously one of those people that think girls that don't dress modestly deserve to get raped. Misogynistic dickholes like you absolutely disgust me. Kindly fuck off.

{HeeHee} Well said...She's not wrong...

mraprobably:45m

I didn't do any of the things mentioned there. Now you are full of yourself thinking I've jerk ed off to your pics. Or told you what I'd do to you. Lol so full of yourself. Get real you are a fat cunt that lost a little weight now you think everyone wants you.

I think you'll find she was generalizing, mate!...Stating what usually happens, telling you not to bother...

Fat c**t?...Wow! He's a real charmer...I suppose in his arrogant A hole mind, he feels he is justified. After all. She rejected his opening message. How dare she...{I am being sarcastic here}...I don't really think that, lol...

mraprobably:25m

You like to put a lot of words into people's mouths. Or guess you know what they are like or what they would do. You judge based off made up pretenses but, I'm sure you also are the type that hates being judged. A hypocrite is what that is called. Bitter is no way to live life.

Just think. All she had to do was say thank you to the creepy little man. She would have saved herself sooo much hassle...Or just ignore him. Ignoring is good. Mind you, ignoring is considered impolite, lol...& these idiots do seem to think that they can be rude, because you can always ignore them or block them...Yep! We can, but why should we? Why can't the weird little reprobates just learn some manners...

HP

Anyone with a minuscule amount of intelligence would be able to infer based on what I wrote that I don't want sexual messages. I shouldn't have to list every possible example. And oooh a fat comment. How original. Especially since I basically say right on my profile that I am gasp fat. And no, I really, really don't think everyone wants me. The only reason I have that "what not to do" list up is because all of those things have already happened and I didn't like it.
I'm judgemental? You're the one acting like you know exactly what I'm like because I reacted negatively to your sexual comment. Take your butthurt elsewhere, I'm done arguing with a <padawan>.

Lol! Yeesss! That told him....

You can't respond to this conversation because mraprobably has deactivated their account, you've blocked them, or they've blocked you.

Lol! She had the last word. Us women do tend to have that ability. Not because we HAVE! to have the last word & be right. Because we are capable of doing so...

On that note. If you think the answer to that is to give her a good spanking. Hmmm! Not good...