On My Fetish List-"Be Careful What You Wish For"- The More Serious Side Of Spanking-

Marks like that are "Mmmm!"

I thought I would do a few more from my Fetlife profile fetish list...

• be careful what you wish for (everything to do with it)

I suppose I should be careful what I wish for. As I love being thrashed. I love being thrashed but it does take a lot of skill to give me the thrashing I desire, leaving me feeling totally relaxed, nooo severe damage done. I don't want to be left bleeding & black & blue. I don't want perminant damage leaving me with more weak spots...

My Ex Dom was very good at giving me just the right thrashing, the right amount of 'almost unbearable pain', no blood, no bruises. That takes skill. Hence not bothering to find a new Dom/spanker for the last few years. I want an intense thrashing, not to be left with damage that takes over a week to heal. Why did I finish with him again...Hmmm? Ohh! Well! Such is life. We live & learn...

Marks like these...TOO! SEVERE! 

I know lots of subs like to see the marks, but if the marks are too severe too often, you end up with perminant damage. I ended up with perminant damage after playing with one abusive A hole. Who left me covered in cuts, swollen hard skin, one cut had a flap of skin, I was covered in black bruises. It took me nearly 2 weeks for most of the damage to heal. 9 years later I am still left with the scars & weak spot. Not good...

There is a serious side to spanking. Its not all perky, jolly, fun & hockney sticks in a 'special, lovely, like minded {souls} community'.  Its lucky I have not put this as a thread in Bs...I'm just remembering poor Dr Quartz being ripped apart by the bully's for daring to give them experts advice...OMFG! How DARE! he...lol...

Anyway. As I was saying. I love being thrashed, but I don't want to be damaged. Don't get me started on the weak spots & wearing some poxy plaster over it to protect. How the £$$%% is a miniscule piece of material going to protect your weak spot from repeat WHACKS! over & over again...Hmmm? Its not. It slides straight off...

I suppose I could put my bottom in a cast...Then I have the option of taking it off & handing it over to the spanker to carry on with out me, lol...{Definitely only joking}...

Maaaybe I should just accept the casual, on occasion spankings from my Ex Dom & few Dom friends I could play with...Ummm! I dunno...