Will My Fetish List Ever End-Actually I Feel Quite Vanilla In Comparison To Other Fetlife Peeps...

I thought I would do some more from my Fetish list...

• being a priority, not an option (everything to do with it)

Fertilized by Bs...
Ohh the irony, lol...

In my perfect subbie world I would like a Dom/spanker to see me as a priority not an option. What I mean by priority is that I come after his vanilla relationships, work etc, before his fan club, I mean other fem subs. Because I am his actual sub, not just another bottom, he is stringing along as his sub, because he is too much of a coward to actually finish with her before moving onto pastures new...Though. What is the saying. Ohh! Yeah!...>>>>>>

Jealous?...Nope! I just don't want to be one of many bottoms, with flavour of the month being priority. Heres an idea. Meet women who want casual, on occasion so called hook ups. Leave the women who want to find a actual Dom/spanker to find what they are looking for..."Each to their own" & all that. Just be honest. Don't string me along. Or. Change our D/s relationship in the hope that I won't notice & won't 'Call it a day'. I will....Sheesh! I think men have ADWD....{Attention deficit 'see another' women disorder}...Good for you. Just don't waste my time, or cause me unnecessary grief...BE HONEST!...

Actually. I think the percentage of Dom/spankers, who are looking for a actual sub to play with, not 'Dom!' 'Train!' 'Control!' is minimal, then take away the Dom/spankers into pleasuring lots of ladies. Ummm! I just dropped down to. Ummm! What. 0.25%...lol...but...That said...I am not going to settle for second best. I don't need to. I have gone this long {2+ years} without it. That 2 + years, was spent not wanting to play, not trying to find Mister honest & sincere to spank me...

Cynical? Nah! Not really...More I just can't be arsed to go through all that hassle.  JUST! for a little pleasure. That pleasure is great, but not that great...

• being more complex than an anonymous list of fetishes could show, causing people to have to actually converse with me, finding out if they like *me* and not just what gets me off.

I think that one explains itself...

• blindfolds (everything to do with it)

"Mmmm!" I just had a flash back with that one. That one is a whole other blog post...

Nuff said for now...