This Is A Long Bitch-Fest. I Apologize In Advance To The People I May Offend...

"Groans!"...One of my pet hates. People making unfounded assumptions about the way I think & feel...I feel a bitch fest coming on...

Love that saying, bitch fest, it sounds so much softer then RANT!

First I need more coffee...

...Let people know you
are listening in,
before butting in, lol...
Mind you...
I can't help it,
if I blend into the background
unobserved,
like a wall flower, lol...
Ohh!
I know...
Maybe if I keep giggling...

{Yes I am taking the pee}

As an introvert I am often assumed to be some weak willed, timid lil mouse type person. It can be quite amusing, but other times I roll my eyes & think 'FFS!'...Some things are funny. Usually the women do this to me...

We'll be sat in a group, they'll be nattering away. I'll be sat there listening. All of a sudden I make some comment. {Gasps! It spoke} Then I get the blank look. Like their thinking 'Who are you. Was we talking to you. Hmmm?'...Such friendly people, lol...

I often feel like saying 'Yes. I am here, I am listening, I am capable of joining in a conversation'. 'Ohh I'm sorry, do I need an invite?'...If I am sitting there talking to another person & someone else joins in. It does not surprise me into stunned 'blank' silence, lol. Other times I feel like saying 'Okay, don't mind me, I'll just go back to sitting here quietly'. So I have come to the conclusion that certain people are lacking in certain people skills. The one which accepts people for who they are & fails at being 'Approachable'...

"Groans!"
Tell me about...

Mind you. I think I give the impression that I am indeed JUST! sitting there, lol...Going back to the unfounded assumptions which I hate so much. Though I'm beginning to think this particular assumption comes from one person. I am friends with this person. I met him for the first time at a LFF. Or was it the first 'night of the cane' I went to...Anyway...I met him about 9-10 years ago. He is one person capable of talking to an introvert without losing his mind. He is approachable, friendly, not stuck up his own...........................................

We always liked him for his honesty & ability to speak his mind & say the things other people are thinking but daren't say for fear of being 'boycotted!'. He does get into lots of disagreements. MW has threatened to 'FUCK WITH HIS HEAD!'. Oops! lol...KB threatened to report him to the internet police for bullying posts...Again...Oops! lol...

As they say...
People don't listen
to hear the other person,
they listen to reply...
Or words to that effect...

I'm still trying to work out how MW can f**k with 'f's' mind??? Infact. Did he even mean to make that threat in public, in the main room of the chat room...Hmmm?...He must have really lost it, but why lose it? Just start a blog & have a good bitch fest...Tis funny...

Me. Personally. I find it all amusing. I keep my opinionated opinions in 'My blog' & steer clear of the drama in certain forums. It's like my first Dom. That was about 11 years ago when I first met him. We was together for 22 months. He behaved like a nob. I reacted like a pissed off, taken the piss out of for far to long, pushed & pushed & pushed until I went over the edge. It took some pushing...Do I regret taking his canes with me??? Nope!

He more then asked for it. If you keep on winding a person up, pushing for a reaction & they keep clinging on {Stupidly} When they finally give you the reaction you was pushing for...Basically. Tough shit. You asked for it. PE! Stop being a nob! You people who listened to the juicy, dramatic, unfounded, malicious gossip & took it as the absolute truth...Shame on you!

Thats more like it...
I think a lot of people have already
made the assumption about a person...
The worse people are the ones
who make up their mind
about a person,
through listening to gossip...

As I said. That was 11 years ago. A mere 22 months out of my life. He is a drop in the proverbial ocean wotsit of my life. Yes he brought with him 'drama' so much 'drama' he reminds me of a emotionally screwed up bitchy woman...

Nuff said about him...

No! I could not give a flying f**k! about that mentally screwed up little man. I was with him for 22 months. I have been married for 24 years. I was with my Ex Dom for going on 8 years. So you see. A drop in the ocean of my life. He did not define me as a person. He taught me some valuable life lessons. Its strange. Because over the years, after him, I have come across a few blokes like him. He taught me who to avoid...

Nooo! I am not hung up on him. You are the one who keeps bringing him up, FFS! When I respond. I am not all doom & gloom, in tears. OMFG! HE BROKE MY HEART!!! {{{Sob!}}} No! . I enjoy a good discussion. You could call it gossip, but it is just between me & you, I am not spreading malicious gossip around, unlike him...

I do honestly try to listen & hear people,
I do try to understand their point of view,
but, sometimes it would be nice if they
could reciprocate, you know.........

I actually find it more irritating that I am assumed messed up over the way that nob! treated me. I went through far worse, far more personal issues, then the ones he caused. So you see. One obnoxious little man, way back in my subbie life. Is of nooo significance. He got his Karma. As they say & as I believe. "What goes around comes around"...

Then there is how I feel about certain bints in the so called scene. They are not festering away in my mind, 24/7, FFS! I have an opinion of them. I am entitled to have an opinion of them. Sorry, but I'm not a born again Christian. I don't need to forgive twats who behave like twats, because they have not done anything personally to me, for me to forgive. They are just 'twats!'...

Yes I am a pagan. No I am not a wiccan...As for the argumentative atheist...Calm down, mate! No one is forcing you to believe in God. Or Jesus. You have a mind of your own. Get a blog. Have a anti religion-fest in there...Sheesh!

Nuff said for now................