What Is The Future For Spanking? Well I'm Not Getting Any Younger-Not Quite Caught Up To Most Of The Dom's Just Yet, Lol!

Ohh! Yeah! Freddie sent me the link to comment on this thread...

WHAT IS THE FUTURE FOR SPANKING

When the question is asked "What is the future for spanking forums" another question springs to mind "What is the actual future for Spanking? ". Meaning will spanking stay as purely spanking or will it fade more into what is now becoming the mainstream BDSM scene ?

Well. From my own personal experience. The Bs forum has been taken over by certain OTT opinionated peeps, with, anyone having a different opinion issues...Sorry, I could not resist...

Also. Again from personal experience. The Ouch forum is full of 'fun' {Not!} games...I did try. Honest I did, but my main news feed wossy is FULL! of two f**king words. Nothing you can join in with. Other then more f**king words...Ohhh! but it fun!

It's like F joined Ouch {Again}...A few certain people left & REFUSED! to join in. They boycotted the forum. Ignored him. Sent him to coventry...but first Mister know all A, just had to show his high intelligence that he KNOWS! F is the infamous fury. Or is F the infamous 'everyone loves to hate' one...Hmmm! When F left the site {Again} the boycott-ees  came creeping back in. The boycott was over...

So. Forums are great, if not 'clicky'  {Lots of lovely like minded souls, being lovely friends} Prone to bullying posts. People who say things they would not dream of saying face to face. Mind you. That goes for forums & groups in general, so no change. Just people being people...

The future of actual spanking...Ummm! Well. My personal future of my personal love of spanking has been through various stages. From the beginning, when I was a naive, gullible too trusting 'Newbie' fresh bottom...

Strange. I never actually done the 'Enthusiastic' sweet shop wossy...Yes I found out that being spanked for real was way better then the fantasy. No 'fantasy is better then reality' there...

I say naive & gullible, because I met people who were...Ummm! What is the most polite way to describe them...Enhanced. Everything was more 'Extreme'. I loved being spanked. I enjoyed going to parties, where I got lots of pleasure playing with lots of Dom's...

I was just there to play. To have fun. To me it was about 'mutual adult fun'. I was not there for all the 'Dramma!' OMFG! the people I first met in the scene did appear to get off on 'Dramma' The more dramatic the better. Why? Why the need to cause so much unnecessary hassle, FFS!

Obviously there will always be drama queens, male & female. Yeah. Drama is more entertaining then 'fun' games of words. I enjoy reading a good debate. Especially when certain people are getting a taste of their own medicine...

Yes. Spanking is BDSM...Well...

" An overlapping abbrevation of Bondage and Discipline (BD), Dominance and Submission (DS), Sadism and Masochism (SM). " 

I am not into bondage. Though I like being restrained for a good spanking. I'm totally opposed to 'Discipline'. Nope! It is definitely all about pleasure, for me. Dominance. Only inasmuch, as he is a Dom into spanking me. Submission. Only in play. Only inasmuch as I submit to be spanked. Sadism. Some so called sadist are pretty scary. I'm not into the more 'extreme' sadistic acts. Like cutting. Sticking needles in people. Nooo! thank you..."Yaaakes!"...I'm a masochist in as much as I get pleasure from the pain of being spanked...

I don't feel the need to treat a Mistress as 'My mistress' To me she is my peer. The same as a Master. He is not my Master. I will always treat the people in the scene as people first. My peers. My equals. Sooo! When it comes to the BDSM 'Etiquette' I fail...lol...

I enjoy spanking parties a lot more then the few BDSM events I have been to. Dare I say there is more action at a spanking party. Etiquette does not get in the way of talking to people. There is no talking to a Master or Mistress as if they really are above me, a mere submissive who can talk when I am spoken to & all that stuff...

I know. Of course I can talk to them...but...Theres still that 'Etiquette' edge thingy going on...I am not explaining this very well. Lets just say I'm not into the whole 'owned' 'property' thing..."Each to their own". Give me a chat, then spanking, followed by a glass of red wine any day...

The thing is. The people into BDSM are doing their own events. Where they do their own BDSM thing. I have tried a few BDSM events. Dare I say. I was 'Bored!'. No action. Just posing. The only action was for display purposes. Like tying some young, slim, model like submissive upside down for what seemed ages, whilst everyone watched...

I don't know what how to respond to secret squirrels thread...

Nooo! Change. Just. As it has always been for years...People come. Get excited. People go. More people come. More excited people. More people left. The parties which were around when I was going to parties every other month, have gone. No more Bs parties. No more Romford parties {My favorite}...Ouch seemed to take over the spanking party scene, but apparently the numbers are dwindling...There will probably be other parties coming up, which will take over as the new 'Best parties ever'...

Oo! I go to Ouch. Do you go to Ouch...Ouch-Ouch-Ouch...Golden membership. Must put your name down early, because they are turning so many people away 'Ouch!'...Now the numbers are dwindling? Really? Or are they all going on holiday at the moment?

I still have no idea what to say...

Other then...

People come. People go. Parties come. Parties go. There will always be new people & new parties...