Should A Fem Sub Allow A Married Man To Spank Her ???

Apparently. Lots of women won't go with married men, for whatever reason. I for one would prefer a married Dom. Or a Dom in a vanilla relationship, because I am married. I doubt the men avoid married women. Or do they?

How I see it. Unless you are looking for a 24/7 DD relationship. Why does the Dom have to be single? I know. There is that moral high ground, but then I am married too. As a grown up, with a mind of my own, I am quite capable of working on my 'own relationships' I don't need the 'poor other woman' police judging me with their narrow minded view that everything in life is 'black & white' 'Right & wrong'...

If I meet a Dom, to play, if he is my Dom or not. Though I am going more for playing one to one with 'My Dom'...Anyway. As I was saying. I don't usually bother asking if he is married or not. If it is in his profile, then I know...He is a grown man. I'm sure he's capable of dealing with his own personal life. Obviously I would not be going with a Dom who is looking for a marriage type relationship...

Oops! Wrong one...

I remember ages ago. When I was still with my Dom. Some woman refusing to play with him because he was a 'married' her words, not mine. She went all judgy, holier then thou. Looked at me as if I was the immoral other woman, stealing some poor woman's husband. I chose to ignore her. After all. It was none of her business. She don't go with married men. Good for her...

This is the one...

Ohh! Wow! Guess what. We are grown ups, capable of dealing with our own 'personal' life. My marriage. No one elses business. His marriage. No one elses business. Her looking down on the cheating bastard & his home wrecking whore {Pmsl}

Mind you. That woman was quite opinionated. I'll never forget the time; at a party, she came marching over to some young woman. The woman stood up as she approached, apologized to her, there was no aggression or rudeness on her part. Yet Mz 'marrieds' police just carried on telling her off in a LOUD! voice, just to ensure everyone heard her being a arsehole to the young woman, who dared to touch her hair whilst she was playing...Ummm! That deserves a tongue lashing, doesn't it...Not!...

The young woman was there, with a old hound dog looking geezer old enough to be her grandfather. Did he stick up for her...Nope! He just sat there & watched along with all the other tough Domly men. All he had to say 'She apologised, you don't need to keep shouting at her'. It was on the tip of my tongue to defend the young woman, because the men certainly wasn't going to speak up for her, but I have learned from experience. You speak up for someone being bullied you're the bad guy...

Good on the young woman for not joining in with the overbearing aggression. She said nothing. Personally I would have told Mz mouth what I thought of her rude, aggressive, antagonistic attitude, but then I doubt she would talk to me like that. I'm fatter & older then her, lol...Actually. She was fatter then me at the time, sooo there nuh! As the young woman said. It is because I am Japanese. Mz aggressive is Malaysian. Apparently it was a racist thing...{Shrugs}

My Dom was trying to get my attention. I was like...I am watching this...Sooo! The way to behave. Ignore the loud bully & act like she is not bullying some young woman, for doing something so trivial as touching her hair...I was on the verge of telling him off as well. Ohh! Yeah! You spanked her, but you blokes can't defend her...Ohh! Does that affect your 'lovely friend' status. Bunch of twats...Yep! I went there. Mainly because I don't have to see these people anymore...

...Ohh! but hey...Go with the flow. Don't rock the boat. You wouldn't want to point out the lovely people have flaws. That is just not the lovely community spirit...Be super duper 'nice'. Make lots & lots of effort to be soooo! nice! Treat people as you would want to be treated...Hmmm????

There you go...
A picture to keep you gallant
Domly fellows going...

Nuff said for now............