Good With A Twist-BDSM Etiquette Vs My Take On Being A Submissive Into Spanking...

I prefer good with a twist...

I'm reading more Fetlife stuff again...

OMFG! She's scary...

Me: {Her not me}
23 F CA
In my case I'm a blood sadist. I carve people up, cover them in needles and light them on fire.
Some sadists might consider me "vanilla."
I've seen sadists put corkscrews through people's skin.
That's hardcore to me.

Lol!

You see that makes me chuckle,
but for some that is serious stuff...

"Yaaakes!"...

"Some sadists might consider me vanilla"...WTF! If shes vanilla, what am ice. Just the ice, no cream, no vanilla flavoring...

"CORK SCREWS!"...I feel pain just reading it, lol...

24 M
wow. thats pretty intense

"INTENSE!"...To me, intense is a long hard thrashing with all my implements from hand to all 3-4 canes. Thats not intense, mate! That is insane...I know. I know. Each to their own, blah, blah, blah, BLAH! What about scars? Infection? Screwing up your head?

"Yaaakes!"

I feel even more tame now, lol...

24 M
and some people think im a little extreme for liking chasity/cock cages lol

Pmsl!

Oops! By Blogging this. Am I dissing some sacred BDSM! etiquette...Oh well. I am not into the whole Master, Mistress, slave, submissive, pet, w/e wossy...Personally. I prefer to be treat as an equal, not some 'mere subbie'...If a so called Mistress was rude to me. I would consider her a rude ignorant bint, in need of learning some manners & getting 'Over herself''. Because to me, there is just no need for it, maybe in play. The same as a so called, self confessed 'Master'. You're not my Master, mate! Calling yourself 'Master' then behaving like an arrogant, pompous arse! is not going to endear you to me, I'm more likely to take the pee out of you...

Ummm!
Really?
You sure?
Because..........................

Not a real submissive?...Probably not. If by real submissive you mean allowing some so called 'Master!' or 'Mistress!' to be rude, disrespectful & talk down to you. Sod etiquette, if you talk down to me...Lets just say. I won't get stroppy, but I will speak my mind. Which is. I am not into being 'Dominated!'. I am only submissive in play...

I was brought up to be well mannered. So I tend to expect the same from others. Maybe I shouldn't. Maybe I should lower my expectations & see it as 'Role play'. These people are in role, they're not interested in the boring ole niceties...

I try to separate my subbie life from my actual life. Being a sub into being spanked is more of a hobby. To me. Spanking should be fun. I should feel totally relaxed & stress free. I also prefer playing with friends. People I like. Having to be all...Ummm! What? 'In subbie role' all the time, would irritate the $%$£$ out of me...

Nuff said for now......