"Mmmm!" Spanking Positions I Would Like To Be In-Spanking Art...

I have been looking at a lot of the negative side to finding your ideal Dom/spanker lately. One thing I have learned. Though justified. Because women have to put up so much crap from the chancers, wankers & generally into being an abusive douche...Anyway. As I was saying. When you read a profile which is basically saying 'Don't contact me if you are a..........................with a list'...It does come across as expecting all men to be like this...

I want to write my profile to put in Fetlife. Maybe Bs, but then Bs is not the site it used to be, so maybe it is not worth wasting my time updating my profile in there. I'll get the same old same blokes, who for whatever did not work out. Nope! That was not all me being picky, thank you very much...I'm sorry, but if we are not looking for the same things, why should I meet you? That is a waste of both our time...


Reading mens profiles can be very helpful in determining what I put in my profile. If I like what I read. Do I Pm him? Ummm! Actually I have Pm'd men before. It usually leads to 'nowhere'. I suppose even though I may like his profile, he did not necessarily like what he saw on my profile...It works both ways. Except I did not get all defensive & arsey about it...It works both ways...

I was going to play one to one with a Dom, I used to enjoy playing with at the parties I went to. Until I saw his wife's face...Nooo! Thank you very much. As much as I enjoy playing with you. I don't need the grief from the jealous wife. Especially as she was in the clique. So EVERY! bint would hear about it & get the opportunity to join in the 'Judging me'..."Yaaakes!" Nooo! I'll stick to Dom's/spankers who are either single, divorced, honest to their wife or just not likely to give me hassle...

 

To me. Spanking is spanking. Sex is sex. Love is love. My marriage is my business & vice versa. I am a woman. Believe it or not I am not going to fall head over heels in love with you & want you to make me yours 24/7. Yes some women fall in love with their Dom {It is probably hormone induced love, lol. The bonding hormone is released, the hormone released during childbirth, which helps you bond with your baby}

Anyway. As I was saying. Some women fall in love. Probably the majority of women feel very close to their Dom. He is after all doing something very intimate & deep. I for one am not into 'cold' 'dirty sex' {That sounds wrong} I don't like feeling used & abused. It is all about mutual adult pleasure from spanking. Respect & loyalty is important to me...

Here is some more spanking pictures I like...{To be in that position}